Sharing My Journey in Memory of Phoenix

This space is where I write about my experiences, thoughts, and reflections as I navigate life after losing Phoenix. Everything shared here comes from my own perspective and my own journey. Nothing I write is intended to cause harm or distress to anyone, living or deceased.

You are welcome to share your own experiences too. Your voice matters, and your story may help someone else who is struggling.

If you feel ready, you can share your story here:

All I ask is that we treat this space with kindness and respect, remembering that others who visit may also be grieving or vulnerable.

Let this be a place of honesty, compassion, and connection, a space where we honour Phoenix by supporting one another.

Phoenix’s Mum (Lisa)


  • Golden Gate Bridge

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    The Golden Gate BridgeA History of Loss and a Future of Hope Before the net, an estimated 2,000 people had died from the Golden Gate Bridge since it opened in 1937. Families campaigned for nearly twenty years to make the barrier a reality. Their persistence, their grief, and their love built something that now protects…

  • Why an Independent Engineering Review Is the Logical Next Step

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    In the recent Courier article, the Tay Road Bridge Board explained that the bridge is a 60‑year‑old structure exposed to high winds and therefore cannot support higher barriers. I appreciate that the Board has taken the time to meet with representatives and to outline the challenges they face. However, I believe this explanation does not…